I like being a girl

I sit in distracted thought at the moment. Trying to find direction to my random processing. A part of my brain is working today that I don’t think has been active in a little while.

I have this friend. Our time usually is spent hiking through the woods along the river talking about God and life. She’s my ‘philosophical’ friend. I’m always inspired and challenged when I hear from her (or when I’m in the states, after our hikes). I’m reminded how big the world is. How much vision matters. How amazing it can be to dwell on God. I start thinking more abstractly after we talk (or I read her blog ☺ ). And she reminds me to live my life big. And to dream big and to invest myself in big visions.

Lately I’ve been thinking about value. Sunday was “Women’s Day” here at church. It was a very cultural experience in a way I didn’t quite expect. It was approached through womanhood as a married woman. I never realized how different even the definition of a woman could change in culture. At home, we are taught about womanhood and femininity as a single. We’re taught to invest our gifts as a woman and use the attributes God gave us no matter where we are in life. We may even be chastised for wasting our gifts by our community (in a good way) if we are wasting our gifts as ‘life-giver’ and ‘helper-completer’ (to use the terms of the five aspects study). While the west usually takes feminism way to far, I’m thankful that my culture assigns me value as an individual, with or without a wedding ring. I really like being a girl. I like the gifts that I have, the qualities God's given me, and the glory of his purpose. I've never considered that I have less worth as an individual. Never even crossed my mind. It upsets me that other women face this battle. Its something I've seen a lot here, but it really struck me on Sunday.

In other news, Annika and I booked our ‘holiday’ trip to Kerala. SO excited for this. It’ll be a short trip, but it’s gonna be beautiful. 5 days to dwell on God’s marvelous creation.

March

I know its been awhile since I’ve written, so I would like to fill you in on what life has been like this past month! After finishing auditing the masters classes in January, we (meaning me and my friend Annika) started working on some community health teaching for girls in their 20’s that are here for their Bachelors program. It was fun and they became really enthusiastic as we handed out chocolate for answering questions on our nutrition talk (I hope you see the irony). I then spent the next few weeks working on topical summaries of health issues that can be translated into different languages and used for community health education throughout the country. Currently, me and Annika are conducting basic health physicals and getting health histories for the Bachelors students on campus. There are 200+ students so we’re keeping pretty busy in the evenings ☺

Mid-march I leave to join a medical trip coming out from the US for about two weeks, and then Annika and I are planning to do some sightseeing in Kerala (southernmost India) which I’ve heard is one of the most beautiful places in all of India. We’re both really excited about these plans and are greatly anticipating the time of travel. But this means that my time in India is drawing to a close. Its strange to think that I have only a few weeks left living here, and I’m having trouble picturing life without some of the friends that I’ve made here! But at the same time, I’m very excited about the next stage in my life. A lot of mixed emotions.


Last week four more international girls came in for their 6 week internship. They’re sweet girls and are definitely still adjusting to India. Please keep then in your prayers as they process both their work and their free-time and also cope with culture stress and homesickness. You can pray for me as I wrap up my work in Hyderabad this next few weeks and seek closure in my time here. I also have a lot of preparations for coming home that I need to finish before I begin traveling. You can also be praying for safety as we travel from mid-march through mid-April.

This weekend we went to a place that I hadn’t been to yet. It’s called Little Rajasthan. Rajasthan is a state in North India with distinct culture—food, dress, dance etc. This is a place I haven’t been, but I’ve heard a lot about it. Anyways, Little Rajasthan is a cultural center nearby where I live where they present and expose people to Rajasthani culture. We made the trek there—and by trek I mean that we didn’t know where we were going and ended up walking WAY farther than we would’ve had to if we had gotten off at the correct bus stop. But it was worth it— We got to experience a lot that night. The food was unique to what we usually have, the dress of those there was different, the dancing was different. The reason I’m writing this, is that I know how easy it is to lump “India” together. But every state in India has a unique culture. It has its own special characteristics, languages, food, clothing, value systems, and composition. I’ve been here a year (nearly ☺) and I’ve hardly begun to grasp the diversity of this country.

I’m also sending a picture of my favorite place in Hyderabad. Golconda Fort. Its 1000+ years old and is spectacular. Plus it has a magnificent view of the city and the surrounding countryside!

long overdue post!

I would like to share with you some cool things that I’ve found in my reading and studying. I should say outright that I realized that these last few months in India could quite possibly be my last chunk of time where I can read and study whatever I want in depth and I’m resolved that I won’t waste it. I’m determined that I will use the next (approximately) 3 months to develop my mind, my character and my relationship with God. This has resulted in a list of 20+ books recommended from the MA classes that I’ve been auditing in addition to books that I just want to read ☺ currently I’m reading a good one on different types of counseling. I would like to share with you a few things that I’ve found interesting.

The first one is on our guiding values that give meaning to our lives:
1) Do my values and priorities and the life-style they produce, allow me to maintain robust physical-emotional health?
2) Do my values and life-style allow me time to develop my midyears potential intellectually and spiritually?
3) Do my values and life-style allow me time to enjoy the good things of life and to do the creative, worthwhile and fulfilling things I could do?
4) Do my present values and life-style leave me enough time with the person or persons I care most about?
5) Does my life-style reflect the most significant and life-giving values—truth, goodness, beauty, wholeness, aliveness, justice, order, simplicity, playfulness, autonomy?
6) Do my values and life-style allow me time for a significant cause, a challenge beyond my inner circle, that will help others and improve our community?




There was also this great passage that I am going to include on developmental crises. These are the normal changes that come into our lives—the ones the come from moving away from home, starting college, getting married, retiring. There is like a 100 item list that is NOT all inclusive of things that cause us developmental stress—the things that just happen in life and we need to work through. I love this quote:

“When one puts on the glasses of hope and growth, each life stage from birth to death, offers a fresh set of emerging strengths and possibilities that did not exist in previous stages. This awareness is the source of an unfolding hope. Each stage also has within it a new set of problems, limitations, frustrations, and losses… The strategy is to help people deal with the problems and losses by developing the new strengths and possibilities of their particular life stage.”



Now those of you who made it through that long portion: Over the next few months, I’ll be working again on the Village Healthworkers Program. We have a nutrition public health presentation next week, then a lot of preparation and writing for a new aspect of the project—pretty exciting stuff!

We (and by we I mean my friend Annika and I) have been auditing MA classes here the last three weeks. It has been phenomenal! We’ve gotten to make friends with Indians and internationals from all over the world and learn from great professors. Although I took four classes, there were 3 that made a great impact on me: systematic theology, philosophical foundations of m*inis*try and leadership, and counseling systems. It will take me a long time to process and thoroughly grasp what I’ve been learning! Truly it was an opportunity I never expected to have, and I feel quite privileged that I got to learn just for fun—no tests, no required assignments.

Thanksgiving: Indian style

While you all were having a turkey dinner, I was... well, to be honest I was probably asleep. But Thursday afternoon we went over to one of the American couples' homes and had a wonderful Thanksgiving meal (The only difference was that we had chicken instead of turkey)--Mashed potatoes, corn, green beans, bread and even gravy (I'm pretty proud of the fact that I learned how to make gravy from scratch!). It was quite a feast!

Thanksgiving is a big holiday in my family. We all gather at my aunt and uncles house and the cousins stay in the house and have a lot of fun! We get up at about 6AM to run 5 miles usually in the snow and sleet, and then come back to get ready for the day and to prepare the meal (mostly the aunts). Then, we eat and there are all kinds of "kids table" traditions that I could describe and you probably wouldn't think were funny but we love! After clearing the tables, we rush to the couches for naptime! Over the course of 3 days we have so many traditions and memories.

I thought it would actually be harder to miss Thanksgiving. Don't get me wrong, there were parts of the day when I was pretty homesick, but there isn't the snow or the intense cold here. I'm still freezing. you know, in the 55F weather. haha I've gotten so soft in the last six months. It'll be an adventure when i encounter snow again! But with no snow and no winter coats and no sweaters and boots, it doesn't feel like the end of November. This is the second Thanksgiving I've spent abroad and they're full of memories!

Like me, Annika and Elise all squeezing into the back of the car voluntarily on the ride back to the campus.

And the overall craziness that we bring to the table :) But the family were wonderful hosts to us and really made it feel like Thanksgiving. It was a good Thanksgiving.

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